Breaking the News of Divorce to Your Family

Couple facing away from each other

Couple facing away from each otherYou want to make the marriage work for the sake of your children, but it’s undeniable that some things have already changed. Deciding to finally end the marriage is not the only thing to think about, however.

Here are some questions to ask yourself:

Do You Know How to File for Divorce?

It’s not going to be easy, but it’s not impossible, too. Prepare yourself by learning how to file for divorce in your state. Each state has their own rules, so Utahans need to look for the process specific to Utah. Your lawyer at Kelly & Bramwell, P.C. can fill you in on the technicalities that you cannot learn from reading online articles. Your case may have unique elements, so don’t expect that it will go precisely how source articles say it will.

How Will You Tell Your Partner?

Saying the word divorce for the first time can be hard. Before telling your partner, it’s all just thoughts. Once you sit down and speak about it, it makes the decision real. Your partner may not take it well, or they might agree with your decision. Gauge their mood, especially if they have a difficult temper. You don’t want to add domestic violence to the mix when you’re already planning to exit the marriage.

How Will You Tell Your Children?

Your children will also have a different reaction to the divorce. The way they see it, their parents do not love each other anymore, and it will split the family in two. They will start thinking about holidays, birthdays, and all those occasions that families supposedly spend with each other. They might also blame themselves for your decision. If it’s possible, you and your partner should talk to them together, so they know that the divorce does not change your love for them.

Divorce is a delicate matter, especially if your family is going through it for the first time. It might mean that the family will be broken, but it can also be that one final time that everyone comes together as one.